Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Merry Christmas, Jocelyn

Sure, technically last Christmas was Jocelyn's first. And she even opened up a bunch of her gifts last year. But she was far more interested in the paper than the toys, especially when still in boxes. This year, however, she was a champ about the presents and loved playing with her toys and reading her new books.

I imagine that the whole Christmas thing is pretty confusing. We put the gifts under the tree as they got wrapped, which was probably weird for her. She got to open occasional gifts - like when we went home for pre-Christmas, and when her daycare teacher gave her a present. But she didn't get to open the ones under the tree when there were sitting right there. We told her that she had to wait for Christmas, but what does that mean to a 17 month old? Not much!

When she did open them, she enjoyed the opening process quite a lot. But then she immediately wanted to play with whatever it was that she opened. Her first gift was a book, and we had to read that book to her about half a dozen times before anybody opened anything else. Her second gift was a toy, which she played with for about 20 minutes while Mike and I opened some of our gifts. After that, she was kind of over unwrapping gifts for a while, but when we unwrapped something for her she was excited to play with it. We had a few of our gifts left at the end, and Jocelyn was very interested in helping open those, which was cute. It was like she finally got the hang of it!

We got to spend some time on Google video chat with Mike's family, so they got to see Jocelyn open some of her gifts. I think that Jocelyn kind of got what was happening. When we asked her to show something to Grandma she brought it over to the computer and held it up. It was really cute. And really cool.

Jocelyn loves Christmas stuff. She loves the tree, the lights, the lights in the neighborhood, etc. She points out the different ornaments on the tree. When she points to them, we tell them what they are. When we tell her Santa, she says, "ho ho." At one point she started pointing up at the tree and saying "um." It sounded like she was trying to say something, but we didn't know what. When we picked her up, she pointed at one of the M&M ornaments and repeated "um." She was trying to say M! That was so cool! After that, she got her little M&M Easter stuffed animal and called it "M" as well. I love watching her make connections and learn stuff.

She's getting really good at identifying body parts, too. A month ago she knew nose. Now she also knows eyes, mouth, ears, head, hair, belly, hands and feet. It's pretty amazing. She can't say the words, but she can point to them on command. And when we put on lotion (Jocelyn LOVES lotion), she knows what body parts to put it on, and whose I am directing her to put it on (rub it on Jocelyn's feet. Rub it on Mommy's belly. Etc.). Again, it's just so cool to watch her learn and grow.

Daycare is going really well, overall. She has stopped crying at drop offs, and no longer seems to be holding a grudge when we pick her up at night. She's just happy to see us. They say that she is a good helper, and that she is very compliant - they don't have to chase her down for diaper changes, for example. I believe that she is a good helper, she loves to help around here. But she is not really a very compliant baby. In fact, I would typically describe her as defiant when it comes to the necessary tasks of the day. But that's fine.

They did pay her a very nice compliment - she is evidently a very good influence on the other children in her class. Jocelyn likes to sort and gather things. She is good at making connections, and puts 'like with like,', so to speak. So all of the balls get gathered together. The ducks get gathered together. The cars get gathered together. You get the idea. The other children do that now as well. So that's really cute.

Daycare is also teaching Jocelyn a few lessons, some of which we wish she wasn't so strict about. I guess they don't get to walk around with drinks there (which is good, when the drink is milk or something else that spoils quickly). They need to be seated to drink. I agree with that most of the time, but not when it comes to water. Jocelyn is encouraged to drink water anywhere and everywhere, since it doesn't go bad or rot her teeth and stays securely in the sippy cup or sports bottle. But these past few days she only wants to drink in her high chair. Which is in the kitchen. And makes us stay in the kitchen and watch her drink. The cute thing is that she can climb into the high chair. This is a double-edge sword, of course. The kitchen floor is slate. Hard, cold slate. So if she were to fall she could get very hurt. But since I shouldn't be lifting a 25 lb. toddler up into a high chair, it's cute when she can do it herself. Today she climbed in while Mike and I were both in the living room. She disappeared into the kitchen for not even a minute, babbling the whole time, and when I turned to look to see what she was up to, she was sitting in her high chair trying to buckle in. We laughed so hard!

The biggest problem with daycare is that the poor baby is constantly sick! It's normal, germs pass around daycare, it's a fact of life. And after a year she should be totally clear and have an iron-clad immune system. But for now it's really rough. She hasn't even been there for a week since we had Christmas and I took this week off, and we are still having trouble getting her healthy. It gets better then worse again.

But I have gotten very far away from the original topic of Christmas. Jocelyn loves it. And I know there will be trouble when we decide to take down the tree. She really likes it. It was bad enough to take down the Halloween decorations, I can only imagine how much worse this will be.

35w3d - Hold on, Pecan!

I know I don't do much pregnancy blogging. I guess that since I have been through it before, it's sort of been there, done that. Which, of course, is the wrong attitude. We do take belly pictures (not nearly as many as we did with Jocelyn), and I do read the weekly iPhone app. But we don't read about it every night this time.

But things have taken a turn for the interesting. First of all, my allergies seem to be much more sensitive during this pregnancy. Not so much with my seasonal allergies, those actually were not as bad. But I had two ER-visit-worthy allergic reactions. One was when I was about 25 weeks and working in Fayetteville, TN. I probably could have gotten that one under control with a bunch of Benadryl, but I didn't have any on me (last time I make that mistake when traveling for work!). The other was Christmas night, while I was home, and I had access to Benadryl. Once I felt the symptoms start I quickly took two children's Benadryls (equivalent to one adult Benadryl), which did not act very quickly. The reaction seemd to be moving very quickly, so I didn't want to take any chances. There is a good hospital about 4 miles away, so Mike took me there. They injected some more Benadryl right into my blood stream, plus another medicine into my blood stream, and then I had to breathe in other medicines. About 2 hours later I went home, all safe and sound and super sleepy. Mike was sweet enough to let me sleep in the next morning while he cared for Jocelyn (of course, she also took the time to sleep in, which only happens when Mike grabs her).

Other than that, pregnancy is fine I guess. I'm a bit nervous about him coming along too early, though. I am already starting to have Braxton-Hicks contractions. I have also had quite a bit of pelvic floor sensation. My OB visit this morning (which was supposed to be last week, but my doctor couldn't make it due to a family emergency) indicated that I am 1 cm. dilated. Already. With about 5 weeks left. Luckily Pecan is still pretty high up in there, otherwise we might be having a New Year's baby. Actually, we still could, because you never know. But let's hope not! Let's get this boy fully cooked :-).

I have had some GI issues of late, so that kind of sucks. There are usually contractions that come with those, and I don't know the cause / effect order on that. I was up in the middle of the night last night having contractions and also tummy troubles. It was not a good combination :-(. I also had a contraction during yoga today. Oh, and I also get terrible reflux at bedtime. It's not a burny, acidic feeling, so I don't call it acid reflux. But there's bubbling, usually of the sips of water I recently drank, so there you go.

Anyway, we are super excited to meet this little guy. We are still evaluating names, and we are nowhere near ready. We have a bassinet, so he has a place to sleep. But we still don't have newborn size diapers. We have some clothes, and much of it is even washed. Unfortunately, it's sitting on the guest bed and not folded up and put into drawers. Oh well, one thing at a time, I guess. I had planned to do some of that today, but I took a 2.5 hour nap instead. I guess I was tired :-P.